The
license plate on the 1964 AC Cobra said it all: SNAKE. The owner
was fast and clever. Shrewdly and relentlessly, he pursued the all-American
goal: The Good Life.
"Love Things and Use People" -- Tom Umberger
was a master of both. He accumulated a fortune in possessions and
surrounded himself with many friends.
His expectations were always met. Tom's drive,
ambition, intelligence and passion paid off in every way. Whatever
he set out to achieve, he accomplished. Money, possessions and women
were all his in abundance.
By Hollywood's standards, he was victorious. He conquered life.
Consider his passion for automobiles. Relishing the notice his car
received in high school, Tom acquired an AC Cobra, America's fastest
production sports car. Then he picked up a Porsche, went through
2 BMW's, and tried a Cadillac limousine.
"I was like a drug addict," admits Tom.
"I needed more and more to gain the same level of satisfaction.
Finally, I went for the ultimate, a red Ferrari."
Careers changed as fast as cars. Always seeking
higher income, Tom moved from engineer to management consultant
to stock broker. Making money proved no problem. Spending it was
even easier. An added benefit was that Tom discovered many women
are attracted to a man that has both money and possessions.
Tom's story truly begins at age 40. Sitting in
his office, he observed several people who had more money than he
could ever hope to acquire. They were quite a bit older than he,
and each had something in common. They were exceedingly unhappy.
Despite great wealth, each was anxious. Some were too feeble ever
to enjoy their money.
Why did they do it? Why did they spend their lives
pursuing money that they could never use? They were not happy, so
what was the purpose?
A frightening thought entered Tom's mind, a thought that would not
leave him alone: "I am becoming like them. I am no different
than they are -- only younger." He began to see his lifelong
pursuit of money as utterly meaningless.
Then there was the red Ferrari. It no longer satisfied
his passion for cars. Seeking new thrills, Tom turned to vintage
car racing in his favorite possession, the Cobra.
At a race track in Pueblo, Colorado, screaming
past the grandstand at 100 miles per hour, the Cobra gave no indication
of a mechanical problem. As Tom shifted into fourth gear, the flywheel
exploded, blowing the engine into pieces, cutting out the brakes
and shearing off the hood. A ball of flame flashed over the windshield
as the car shot down the track, driver and passenger at the mercy
of the shattered race car.
Miraculously, even though Tom's foot was smashed
and broken and his rider's leg sliced open, neither man was seriously
injured.
But Tom was again haunted. His favorite possession had almost taken
his life.
Money and things, two of Tom's three lifelong pursuits,
were troubling him greatly. He was left with only one potential
source for comfort -- women.
At 40, Tom was no longer interested in short-term relationships.
He was ready to settle down, to establish a family. While his envious,
married friends were sighing, "Man, you've got it made,"
Tom could not deny the emptiness inside. He was looking for love
and living a lie.
After considering the women he had known, Tom met
with one in whom he thought he could invest his life. After 40 years
of being single, he devoted his life to her.
"Then, she tore out my heart."
That haunting, again. First, the bitter, unhappy,
lonely people trapped with their money. Second, the beloved car
that almost became his coffin. Third, the love given freely that
resulted in deep, deep ache. All in space of a few months.
"I had been a highly manipulative, silver-tongued
devil. I lived my life by the motto, 'Love Things and Use People.'
I had tried everything I knew in my life that would bring happiness
and fulfillment. Everything I touched was successful, yet I was
rushing down dead-end streets.
"I was confused and despairing. Where could
I turn? What was left?
"Then it struck me 'I'd never truly examined spiritual matters'.
I thought, 'What do I have to lose? I'll look for a while, and if
it doesn't work, fine. I'll be no worse off than I am now.' So,
acting once again on my own strength, I explored self-help techniques
and affirmations. They got me nowhere. Then I thought, 'Well, other
people pray and read the Bible. Maybe I should try that.'
"At first I thought, 'This is great! I can
go to Jesus, He will free me from the consequences of my sin, and
I can continue to rebel. If this is religion, I'll take it!'
"As I look back, I realize God was beginning
to open doors for me. One day I found myself at a singles conference.
A man there could tell I was searching and invited me to attend
a men's luncheon.
"I attended and encountered men just like
me. While they were struggling with life, they had inner peace and
a quiet contentment that gave life meaning. I wanted what they had.
Dick, the CFO of a fortune 500 company, helped me understand a simple
truth: Jesus is who He claimed to be - God himself became a man.
"I listened to the other men and observed
their changed lives. As I read the Bible, God's words rang true,
cutting deep into my heart, exposing all those areas that I had
tried to hide. The Bible's practical insights jumped out.
"'What does it profit a man if he gains the
world and loses his soul?'
'The love of money is the root of all kinds of evil.'
'Yes, all have sinned and fall short of God's glorious ideal.'
'The wages of sin is death...'
"That
last verse was speaking about me. I was a dead man! The car accident
was no accident, it was a warning shot.
"I gave my heart to Jesus Christ and asked
him to come into my life. Now he is my Lord and Savior." Tom
has been restored and is a completely new man. "I have a new
motto now: Love People and Use Things. Every day I ask God, 'What
do you want me to do today?' My days are numbered, and I want them
to count for something that will last."
Once his desires were yielded to Christ, Tom began
to realize the contentment that he had always sought. Financial
pursuits and material possessions came under control.
Only in his relationships with women did he continue
to struggle. Relating to them from God's perspective - with trust,
honor and commitment - was his next battle.
"The answer, I discovered, was letting go,
just as I had done with money and possessions. I willingly gave
my relationships with women over to God's control.
"Now the irony is humorous. 'I searched for
a woman unsuccessfully, looking in all the wrong places,' muses
Tom. 'Then I found my wife while teaching a class at church.'"
Tom has learned that every time he honors God, God honors him.
Knowing the truth is Tom's new pursuit. He now
realizes that the truth is found only in Jesus Christ. As Jesus
said in John 8:31-32, "If you hold to my teachings, you are
really my disciples. Then you will know the truth and the truth
will set you free." Tom has realized freedom through a relationship
with Jesus Christ.
By the way, like its owner, the Cobra has also
been restored. It was rebuilt after the crash. The old license plate,
"SNAKE," no longer mirrors Tom's heart and has been discarded.
The new plate reflects the owner's passion : "1TRUTH."